Showing posts with label Neil Kramer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Neil Kramer. Show all posts

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Great Interview Experiment Part II

A couple of days ago, I posted my interview of unfinishedperson as half of my involvement in Neil Kramer's Great Interview Experiment. A couple of days later, I was interviewed by the lovely and talented Astrogirl426, from Notes from the Bunker. Since I know you are all clamoring to know more about me, here is that interview. You can also read it on her blog, or you could just stop over and let her know what a creative genius you think she is. She's damn funny.

You mention in your blog that you and your family moved from the San Francisco Bay area to Seattle in 2005. What is the best thing about moving to Seattle? (I won't ask the worst; we don't want to piss off the Seattleites!)
Hmmm, the best thing about moving to Seattle is that we are finally close enough to my family for them to visit regularly. (And for me to mooch babysitting from them occasionally.) That was the main factor behind the move. As far as the best thing about Seattle itself, I think the lifestyle up here is just so much more laid back. It bugged me at first. When we got up here, I'd run into a coffee shop to get my double non-fat latte (aka fuel) and instead of it being ready for my go-go-go lifestyle, I'd actually have to wait as the barista lovingly hand-crafted it, completely with a little design in the foam on top. I was used to the California version where they rush you out just as quickly as you rush in. Up here, it seems that coffee is a part of life, a moment to step away and take a break, not just a highly caffeinated beverage to help you keep on running. It extends beyond coffee too. This was just the easiest example of the difference in pace. Once I adjusted, I actually liked it slower. But man, it took some time to adjust.

And I'm bold, the worst thing about Seattle, the fucking cold cold cold dark winters. They suck. Yeah, I know, nothing compared to what you endure in Albany, but still, they suck for me, and I am the center of my little universe. I don't like being cold much.

You mention in your bio that you and your husband bought a fixer-upper when you moved. What is the biggest regret you have in remodeling your house?
Biggest regret: The fact that we are nowhere near being done. Since we're doing it ourselves, it is taking FOREVER. I jokingly refer to my house as the two story crackhouse on the corner because it looks so shabby and run down. Most of the work Mr. Dog has done so far isn't doing much to improve the outside of the house, we're still doing the foundation, so it is expensive, slow and really doesn't make our house any sexier. Just less likely to fall over and crush the neighbors.


What is the thing you're most thankful for in the remodeling experience? Would you do it again if you knew then what you know now?
I guess I'm most thankful for the opportunity to save this beautiful house. Yeah, I just called it a crackhouse, but it is a beautiful, historic crackhouse. Seriously, the local historical society did a history of our house at the local library. I walked in to see photos of our house complete with the history. I didn't even know they were doing it, so it was kind of cool. They wrote us a thank you note for not tearing it down, because that is happening a lot in this area of Seattle, to make room for condos. I'm happy to be living in this little piece of local history, and hope to restore as much historical detail as possible, though with the modern conveniences like indoor plumbing and a 6-burner range...


You mentioned in one of your postings that you were interviewing a babysitter, in the hopes that you and your husband could get a night out once in a while. What would you do it you had the choice to go anywhere with your husband, for one night, without the kids - and someone else (with deep pockets) was footing the bill?
It would have to be someplace local I guess since you're only giving me one night. I'd take one night in the Beatles suite at the Edgewater hotel. (this is the hotel where that photo of the Beatles fishing out of the window was taken, right on the water in Seattle.) I'd demand room service, in room massage and a good night of sleep. But mostly the sleep. That is something I am way too short on most times.


You mention a few of the places outside of the continental US that you have visited. Which is your absolute fave, and why? If your favorite place is somewhere you haven't been yet, where is it? Why do you want to go?
I loved most of the places I've been outside of the US. I'd probably say my favorite was Greece, I traveled there when I was in college just bumming around for a couple of months on my own. The people were amazingly friend and the food, oh man the food...awesome. I spent most of my time laying around on beaches or touring ruins. I got to read tons of books and just go at my own pace. It was like heaven. Though I could say Belize was my favorite too. We went there on our honeymoon. Went scuba diving almost every day, lounged around, went hiking in the rain forest, drank lots of drinks loaded up with rum, did lots of...honeymoon things. I'd go back there in a heartbeat.
I still want to make it to Turkey sometime, since that was our original, well second original honeymoon plan. My mom dad and sister have all been there now, and I wallow in my jealousy whenever they show me photos. I'd also like to go to Morocco, Madagascar, Argentina, Portugal...hell, the list is a mile long. Right now I'm shooting for Hawaii. I think it will be a while before the kids are ready for international travel. *big sigh*


You refer to the men in your family as Dog - Mr. Dog, Big Dog, Little Dog. Any funny stories behind that?
Nah, not really. My blogging name, Followthatdog, was my handle when I was posting on the Craigslist Parenting Forum. I started calling my husband Mr. Dog because Mr. Followthatdog was too long, and I hated the accepted abbreviation DH (darling husband). The kids got dubbed Big Dog and Little Dog by another poster after I complained that I couldn't come up with cute nicknames for them that worked. Once she suggested these, it was like being slapped in the face with the most obvious decision EVER, and they stuck. My own handle came about when I was still trying to get pregnant. I was a total dog person, love them, my life revolved around my pups. I had two dogs, one with the nasty habit of running off at the dog park. I felt like I was always chasing her, so "follow that dog", like "follow that cab" in the old movies, kind of made me smile. No funny story about the nicknames, but when I was pregnant with Big Dog I constantly had pregnancy dreams that I gave birth to a dog, and and had to convince people it was actually a baby.


You also have a food blog (From Mosh Pits to Mashed Potatoes). I must admit, for the stay-at-home mom of one small child who's in school all day, I still don't know where you get the time and energy to cook such delicious foods for your family. Have you always enjoyed being in the kitchen, or is this something you developed when you started a family?
I've always like cooking, and for me, it is kind of relaxing. Even before I had kids, before I was married, back in the dark ages, I used to host a "family dinner" every Sunday for our close group of friends. It was a nice way for us to all connect, and it got us all together at least once a week. My mom and dad both cook and my mom is an insanely great hostess, so I think it came from being raised in that environment. But maybe not, my older sister doesn't like cooking, so who really knows.


Your kids seem to be such adventurous eaters. My guy eats from a list of about 15 items (it sounds like a lot, but trust me, it isn't). Have your kids always been so adventurous, or was it something you developed in them? And if the latter, I will pay you any amount of money if you will tell me how you did it? :)
I am just really really lucky. My kids have both been wide open to trying new foods. They both like to eat and have very few things they don't like. It's kind of funny because when they were infants being introduced to their first foods, neither of them seemed to have much interest. We'd offer things that babies were supposed to like, and they'd gag or make ridiculous faces but they wouldn't eat much. Then we'd find their magic food, the one that they just gobbled up. For Big Dog it was roasted red peppers. For Little Dog it was avocados. Then things kind of opened up for them, well, not too quickly for Little Dog, there were a few weeks when we were going through 3 avocados a day, and nothing else. With subsequent foods, we just offer new things and let them try them. They aren't required to eat anything they don't like, and I encourage them to participate in picking foods at the store. We also like to bake together, which is fun, but also kind of a good tool for teaching. But again, I think I am mostly just lucky to have kids that eat well. Have I mentioned they don't sleep? Yeah.

Have you ever thought about writing a recipe book? :)
I would LOVE to write a cookbook. I've been trying to find a good one targeted at cooking real food for kids and haven't found one that fits all of my weird dietary quirks yet. The blog is my way of keeping track of what I've made, what worked, what flopped, what needed adjusting and sharing that with other parents.

One last question I've always loved asking a foodie (please forgive the macabre tone): If you could choose, what would you like your last meal to be?
Easy, a chili relleno burrito from La Corneta (aka the Corn), in Glen Park, not the Mission Street one, in San Francisco. That and a GIANT glass, hell a whole bottle of David Bruce Petite Syrah.

Monday, October 13, 2008

Great Interview Experiment Part I

In January of this year one of my favorite bloggers, Neil Kramer over at Citizen of the Month, started The Great Interview Experiment. The idea was that one blogger would interview another blogger, publish the interview on their blog, and then the interviewer would be interviewed by another blogger kind of like a chain reaction of blogger interviews. Cool, no? When I first read about it, I thought it was for bloggers more serious about blogging than me, so I didn't sign up and I didn't think much more about it. A few weeks ago, Neil announced one of the interviewers had to back out, and he was looking for a replacement interviewer. In keeping with my personality flaw that forces me to overcommit, and always try to help out other people, I told him I'd jump in and do that interview. At some point, I'll be interviewed as well, and I'll let you know when and where that happens. So without further ado, here is my interview of Unfinishedperson.

General Bloggy Questions

1. You have five blogs covering various aspects of your life. Which blog did you start first, or did you begin with a plan to have a multi-blog approach? And what brought you to begin blogging in the first place?

The blog that I began first was Just A (Running) Fool on Oct. 27, 2005 to chronicle my journey toward reaching a marathon by the time I'm 40. I'll be 40 on June 9 next year, with my first marathon scheduled for June 6, God's Country Marathon. For more on all five blogs, visit unfinishedperson.com with feeds to all four other blogs on left sidebar.

I think it was my wife who brought me to blogging and also my sister, who both started blogs before I did. Both are still going strong.

2. How would you describe your level of commitment to your blogs? How often do you post and how much time do you spend working on each post? What is the criteria you use for adding a blog to your blog roll? How do your family and friends react to your blogs?

My level of commitment to my blogs, plural, is not always consistent, but on individual blogs is good, depending on the week. My strongest blog so far has been my book blog: Just A (Reading) Fool, with the readership growing there by leaps and bounds. I try to post once a day on at least one of blogs, if not more on all of the blogs. A couple of my family, such as my wife and sister, already are bloggers, but most everyone just rolls their eyes, especially my parents when I put up a post about them going off about talking ants and a big, honking lot of pasta salad.

Blogroll: on my main blog an unfinished person in an unfinished universe, I include the ones I consistently follow in my Google Reader, and anyone who asks to be included, who considers themselves an unfinished person in this unfinished universe. On my book blog,I don't have a blog roll, because there are too many good book bloggers out there so I've put them all the ones I've encountered (and am continuing to encounter) on a bookmark on del.icio.us. I provide the link to it on my sidebar. On Journeying with the Saints, I've included the few other "devotional" bloggers I've encountered in my journeys. On my humor or rambling blog, Unfinished Rambling(s), I have many of the bloggers whom I've discovered through Humor-Blogs.com on my blogroll. However, I'm working on making that a little more consistent and am considering doing something similar to what VE's Fantastical Nonsense does on his sidebar, although I haven't implemented it yet.

About the Great Interview Experiment

What was your motivation for participating in the Great Interview Experiment? Is there a specific goal you have as a result of participating?

I happened across Neil's blog and the experiment through a friend of mine on SparkPeople, and thought it looked like a great social experiment. So why not? No specific goal, other than connect to other bloggers like yourself.

About Unfinished Person

Your blog's name is taken from a quote by Dr. George Sheehan, "Each one of us is an unfinished person in an unfinished universe." What parts of you do you consider the most "unfinished"?


Um, all of them, body, mind and soul and as I say that part of us that doesn't fit as neatly into the body/mind/soul paradigm. I believe none of us will truly be finished until we are...uh...finished.

About just a (running) fool


Before announcing your intentions to run an marathon by the age of 40, what was your level of fitness and what kind of exercise did you do? Was this something you'd considered doing before, or was it a moment of inspiration? In your recent posts it it seems that your motivation for the marathon has greatly diminished but I didn't read any explanation. Any idea why?

Before: My level of fitness was nil. I hadn't run or done any consistent exercise since high school when I was a member of the cross country team (pictures here). I was a couch potato and worked in a sedentary job where I ate at McDonald's all the time. After ballooning up to 280 pounds (I'm 5-foot-6), I decided enough was enough and started with Weight Watchers. When that only got me so far, I took up running. I didn't want to be Mr. Potato Head anymore, and I'm not now.

I don't know why I've experienced the lack of motivation recently, but today after a long layoff, I finally got out for run. It was too beautiful of a day where I live in northcentral Pennsylvania not to run.

About Just A (Reading) Fool

You are a voracious reader judging by the list of books you have read and reviewed. I didn't notice any theme of content or genre, is there a specific criteria you use when selecting your reading material?

Short answer: Nope.

Longer answer: No, ma'am.

Slightly longer answer: Mostly I choose what I already own and those books which I haven't read yet. I occasionally am influenced by what others recommend on book blogs.

About Journeying with the Saints


Given the religious background you described in your conversion story
, I found it interesting that you found your way to Catholicism. What was it about the Catholic church that appealed to you? Has your initial expectation of what conversion would mean held true?

With all of the scandals in the Catholic church, especially in the last couple of decades (not counting the Crusades, the myriad "bad" popes the Church has had), it may seem odd that anything about the Church appealed to me. However, what really drew me was the focus on Jesus, pure and simple, at least for me. Jesus is at the center of the faith, especially in the Eucharist, where we believe the bread and wine become the Body and Blood of Christ. From that, everything else flows. The Church leadership and laity, of course, are sometimes, although not always, flawed-- as all are any of us who are humans. It's that we're still working toward being finished people, or being more finished than when we began. That's what matters.

I'm not sure what I expected from conversion, except for a growing knowledge of the holy in all of life-- and even though it sometimes is hard to see in a world full of war, poverty, etc., I think I'm more aware of it now-- even in the midst of all of that.

All that said, if you think I'm a completely serious person, then you need to check out the site for what I call the alter ego to unfinishedperson: unfinishedrambler @ unfinished rambling(s). You've got to laugh too at yourself (and at others, naturally).

Other

In more general life, because let's face it, I'm a mommy blogger not a psychologist, what is your best time saving tip? What three grocery items make you feel like your cupboards are well stocked? What phrase do you use too much either in speaking or writing?

Time saving tip? Hmmmm. Don't sweat the small stuff? No? It's all small stuff. I'm not very good on time management, to be honest. Even now, I'm pressed up against time, to finish this and then head off to a high school football game I have to cover for a newspaper.

Three grocery items: bread, milk, peanut butter. I mean, peanut butter, bread, milk. Bread and milk because live in the Northeast U.S. and when it snows, that's what you have to get from the store.

Hmmmm. What phrase? Probably...hmmmm. Or ummm. I also use "also" too much and parenthetical remarks (although not in these answers as much as I normally do, hmmm).

Are you happy? And what does "happy" mean to you?

Right now, no. Getting a headache, but that's just because I'm thinking about all the things I need to do before I head out the door.

Overall, though, yes.

To take completely out of context, from a Billy Joel song:
Things are okay with me these days
I got a good job, I got a good office
I got a new wife, got a new life
And the family is fine

Good job: Working at a bookstore, even if part-time. Good office: My home office with a window. New wife: Same "new" wife for last 12 years and only wife for me. New life: Every day.
Family: no children, but we got a cat Seamus, and that's enough for us.
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